What Is EMDR Therapy? A Gentle Explanation
If you’ve heard of EMDR therapy, you may be wondering what it actually is — and whether it’s right for you.
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. While the name sounds technical, the idea behind EMDR is actually very human and very simple.
EMDR is a therapy that helps the brain process experiences that were too overwhelming at the time they happened.
Why EMDR Works
When something stressful or traumatic happens, the brain usually knows how to make sense of it over time. But when an experience feels too intense, too sudden, or happens without enough support, the brain can get stuck.
That’s why people may say:
- “I know I’m safe, but my body doesn’t feel like it.”
- “I’ve talked about this before, but it still affects me.”
- “I react strongly even when I don’t want to."
EMDR helps the brain finish processing.
What Happens in EMDR Therapy
EMDR is structured, paced, and focused on safety.
Using bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements or tapping), the brain is supported in moving memories into the past where they belong.
What EMDR Can Help With
- Anxiety and panic
- Low self-esteem or shame
- People-pleasing and boundaries
- Lack of confidence
- Childhood wounds
- Feeling stuck
What EMDR Is — and Isn’t
EMDR is not hypnosis or mind control.
It is collaborative, client-led, and focused on healing.
A Gentle Closing
You don’t need to have all the answers.
You just need a safe place to begin.





